It's a common patch-up for broken "romantic" relationships. It's just natural for the one left behind to say they'll wait.

When you say you'll "wait" for someone, it sounds so noble, so loyal. It's one honest feeling you have right after a break-up. But, seriously, think about it. If a person really loves you, they won't let you wait for them. If they care enough about you, they'll atleast tell you not to wait… They'll tell you to live your life. They'll tell you to go out there and have the fun you deserve. They'll tell you to go date others, go running after your dreams. They won't just let you wait. They won't imply for you to wait. They won't even show the slightest comfort on the idea. And on that note, I'm glad I loved someone who never burdened me with the idea of waiting.



When someone says they'll wait for you, don't expect such things. People are not patient by nature. And, honestly now, we dislike waiting*. We hate lines, and taking numbers. We want to be serviced now. We want answers ASAP. We want all the good things RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW. But, we never want to handle the bad things ASAP, and that's a different story, I'm going off topic. ANYWAY, back to the topic, we dislike waiting. If you respect the person atleast, don't let them wait. Be a gentleman (or a lady, or a human atleast) and don't make them wait for your sorry ass to be ready for them. Don't stop them from living their life. Don't let them waste their time. Everybody changes. You'll never know if you'll ever be good enough for them. You'll never know if they'll ever find someone better than you. Thus, don't make someone wait for you. And even if they insist, don't expect them to. Anytime you're going on with your life, messing around, thinking it's okay since someone's waiting for you, they might snap out of it and move on. And, besides, if you really want to be good enough for someone, you won't let them "wait". You stay by their side, and bit by bit , be molded into the person the relationship needs. Woo.


But, you know, that's just me. :) My blog, my opinion.


A/N:
*I was planning to say "hate waiting", but then, hate is a strong word.
**Did you notice how many "atleast's" there are in this post? LOL. OVERUSED.

Labels: #cw, %english, `life

It's a common patch-up for broken "romantic" relationships. It's just natural for the one left behind to say they'll wait.

When you say you'll "wait" for someone, it sounds so noble, so loyal. It's one honest feeling you have right after a break-up. But, seriously, think about it. If a person really loves you, they won't let you wait for them. If they care enough about you, they'll atleast tell you not to wait… They'll tell you to live your life. They'll tell you to go out there and have the fun you deserve. They'll tell you to go date others, go running after your dreams. They won't just let you wait. They won't imply for you to wait. They won't even show the slightest comfort on the idea. And on that note, I'm glad I loved someone who never burdened me with the idea of waiting.



When someone says they'll wait for you, don't expect such things. People are not patient by nature. And, honestly now, we dislike waiting*. We hate lines, and taking numbers. We want to be serviced now. We want answers ASAP. We want all the good things RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW. But, we never want to handle the bad things ASAP, and that's a different story, I'm going off topic. ANYWAY, back to the topic, we dislike waiting. If you respect the person atleast, don't let them wait. Be a gentleman (or a lady, or a human atleast) and don't make them wait for your sorry ass to be ready for them. Don't stop them from living their life. Don't let them waste their time. Everybody changes. You'll never know if you'll ever be good enough for them. You'll never know if they'll ever find someone better than you. Thus, don't make someone wait for you. And even if they insist, don't expect them to. Anytime you're going on with your life, messing around, thinking it's okay since someone's waiting for you, they might snap out of it and move on. And, besides, if you really want to be good enough for someone, you won't let them "wait". You stay by their side, and bit by bit , be molded into the person the relationship needs. Woo.


But, you know, that's just me. :) My blog, my opinion.


A/N:
*I was planning to say "hate waiting", but then, hate is a strong word.
**Did you notice how many "atleast's" there are in this post? LOL. OVERUSED.

Labels: #cw, %english, `life