LOVE. Yes, AGAIN. I keep on talking about it because everyone's just love-crazy. Either they believe it, or they argue there's no such thing. And I'm helping make it a popular topic by doing another post about it. Maybe I should have a love tag.

I think love is the feeling of satisfaction when you make someone happy. You love someone when you get triumphant by making someone happy... Or, atleast, not making someone miserable. I think love is feeling safe when you're together, and growing even more immersed with each other while apart. I think love is learning - learning when to say yes, when to say no; learning what's right, from what's not right; learning to be an individual.

I think love should be voiced out, be exhibited. I don't mean PDA. PLEASE. DO NOT DO YOUR THING WHERE OTHER PEOPLE CAN SEE YOU. I mean, if you really love someone, you should be able to say it. Maybe not directly to that person, atleast to others (not just one) who are very much alive. Saying something, hearing it from your own voice, is admitting. 'Wag kang mahiyang sabihin sa iba na love mo 'yung person na love mo. And I think that's love. You should admit you love someone. You should tell someone. Actually, tell the world. Love is not a crime. I know my God would want me to be vocal and expressive. I know my God loves me, and I love Him. I know He would want me to share what I feel. I know He would want me to know how others feel about me.

If you can't say you love that person, if you're not brave enough to admit it... then maybe it's not love afterall. Just an idea of love, infatuation, maybe. Or it's almost love, or it is love, but since you're not yet brave enough to say it, it's love at a wrong time. A crush, maybe. Something. But it's not love.

[I should come up with a word with this love-like feeling/idea.]

SOOO... Here's the catch:

Ang kabit, andyan kasi, hindi satisfied 'yung kinakabitan(?) sa real partner nya. SO, they just want their kinakabitan to be happy. Tapos, sabi nila, okay lang na hindi sila ang number one (well, madalas, okay lang), basta mahal nila 'yung person. 'Yun lang ang mahalaga.

I don't think this should be. ASIDE FROM THE FACT THAT I REALLY REALLY REALLY HATE THIS TYPE OF PEOPLE AND WHY THE FUCKING HELL THERE ARE SUCH PEOPLE.

First of all, ARE YOU FUCKING MAD? If you're not satisfied with your relationship, please, FIX IT OR END IT. Don't wait for things to get worse. AND DON'T EVER GET A NUMBER 2. You're not just destroying your Number 1's life, your Number 2's as well. You ruin their reputation and their self esteem. If you want to destroy your own life, don't bring others down with you.

AND TO NUMBER 2's, WHAT THE FUCK. Have you ever heard of "Love yourself, others will love you."? Have some dignity. Don't you respect yourself? Don't give me that "hindi ko hinihinging mahalin mo rin ako" bullshit. LOVE, for me, should be acknowledged. It's either (1)accepted and reciprocated, or, (2)denied. 'Wag kang magtyaga sa hindi ka priority. KASI, kahit bored ka, hindi talaga tama 'yun. Makipag-chever ka sa single, sige. Atleast masasabi mong wala kang kasalanan. Pero sa commited, iba na 'yun. Kahit hindi pa sila kasal, DUDE, a sin is a sin... (Side note, a sin is salt :))) HAHAHA...)

I believe there's someone for everyone. Some people find their perfect match, some people don't. There's someone who'll love you with all their heart and soul. You just have to be patient. You just have to have faith. Maybe the perfect one for you is not the one you imagined, but, I'm sure there's someone. Don't waste your time being with the wrong person. Every hour spent with the wrong person, is an hour less spent looking/waiting for the right person.

But then again, life is pro-choice. You can choose a person to be your perfect one... The question is, do they want to make you the one for them?

Do I even have a point?

LOVE. Yes, AGAIN. I keep on talking about it because everyone's just love-crazy. Either they believe it, or they argue there's no such thing. And I'm helping make it a popular topic by doing another post about it. Maybe I should have a love tag.

I think love is the feeling of satisfaction when you make someone happy. You love someone when you get triumphant by making someone happy... Or, atleast, not making someone miserable. I think love is feeling safe when you're together, and growing even more immersed with each other while apart. I think love is learning - learning when to say yes, when to say no; learning what's right, from what's not right; learning to be an individual.

I think love should be voiced out, be exhibited. I don't mean PDA. PLEASE. DO NOT DO YOUR THING WHERE OTHER PEOPLE CAN SEE YOU. I mean, if you really love someone, you should be able to say it. Maybe not directly to that person, atleast to others (not just one) who are very much alive. Saying something, hearing it from your own voice, is admitting. 'Wag kang mahiyang sabihin sa iba na love mo 'yung person na love mo. And I think that's love. You should admit you love someone. You should tell someone. Actually, tell the world. Love is not a crime. I know my God would want me to be vocal and expressive. I know my God loves me, and I love Him. I know He would want me to share what I feel. I know He would want me to know how others feel about me.

If you can't say you love that person, if you're not brave enough to admit it... then maybe it's not love afterall. Just an idea of love, infatuation, maybe. Or it's almost love, or it is love, but since you're not yet brave enough to say it, it's love at a wrong time. A crush, maybe. Something. But it's not love.

[I should come up with a word with this love-like feeling/idea.]

SOOO... Here's the catch:

Ang kabit, andyan kasi, hindi satisfied 'yung kinakabitan(?) sa real partner nya. SO, they just want their kinakabitan to be happy. Tapos, sabi nila, okay lang na hindi sila ang number one (well, madalas, okay lang), basta mahal nila 'yung person. 'Yun lang ang mahalaga.

I don't think this should be. ASIDE FROM THE FACT THAT I REALLY REALLY REALLY HATE THIS TYPE OF PEOPLE AND WHY THE FUCKING HELL THERE ARE SUCH PEOPLE.

First of all, ARE YOU FUCKING MAD? If you're not satisfied with your relationship, please, FIX IT OR END IT. Don't wait for things to get worse. AND DON'T EVER GET A NUMBER 2. You're not just destroying your Number 1's life, your Number 2's as well. You ruin their reputation and their self esteem. If you want to destroy your own life, don't bring others down with you.

AND TO NUMBER 2's, WHAT THE FUCK. Have you ever heard of "Love yourself, others will love you."? Have some dignity. Don't you respect yourself? Don't give me that "hindi ko hinihinging mahalin mo rin ako" bullshit. LOVE, for me, should be acknowledged. It's either (1)accepted and reciprocated, or, (2)denied. 'Wag kang magtyaga sa hindi ka priority. KASI, kahit bored ka, hindi talaga tama 'yun. Makipag-chever ka sa single, sige. Atleast masasabi mong wala kang kasalanan. Pero sa commited, iba na 'yun. Kahit hindi pa sila kasal, DUDE, a sin is a sin... (Side note, a sin is salt :))) HAHAHA...)

I believe there's someone for everyone. Some people find their perfect match, some people don't. There's someone who'll love you with all their heart and soul. You just have to be patient. You just have to have faith. Maybe the perfect one for you is not the one you imagined, but, I'm sure there's someone. Don't waste your time being with the wrong person. Every hour spent with the wrong person, is an hour less spent looking/waiting for the right person.

But then again, life is pro-choice. You can choose a person to be your perfect one... The question is, do they want to make you the one for them?

Do I even have a point?